how can i tell if my son is gay........?

Question

how can i tell if my son is gay........?

Answer 1

There is no reason for you to know. If it doesn't bother you, then let him come to you in his own time, and if it does, then you need to get over that and let him live his own life.



I only came out to my parents because I wanted to share my life with them, and they had made it clear that homosexuality didn't bother them.



If you are worried about him having sex, there isn't much you can do about that even if you did know he was gay. I remember reading somewhere that not only is the average age that people lose there virginity is 16, but 47% of teenagers will lose it at home, in the middle of the day. I certainly lost mine while my parents were just in the other room, and they knew I had my boyfriend in there with me with a open doors rule.



Making rules for him will just upset him, and drive him to make unsafe decisions to get what he wants.





If you are really just worried that he may be doing something unsafe, then maybe a general safe-sex talk would be best.

Answer 2

Maybe he's just not interested because he's still "scared" of girls.... at least he's into sports.... don't ask him though... that'll screw him up in the head and he'll probably hate you for that.... Either way..... you have no control over it, so why does it matter? If you guys are close... which it doesn't seem like you are..... he'll probably tell you, unless he feels like you be an *** and criticize him for it.

Answer 3

If he is old enough, buy him a Playboy magazine and see if he pays more attention to the pictures or the articles. Then take it from there.



If he is younger, the only thing you can do is wait and see.

Answer 4

depends on how old he is and he has the right to be gay if he wants to. But if you are so concerned ask him.

Answer 5

sit down with your son, and let him know that you will love him no matter what. don't ask him outright, but just let him know that you, as his parent, provide unconditional love. btw, why is this in car audio?

Answer 6

Does he like Harleys?

Answer 7

What is your definition of gay?

Answer 8

Find a time when he doesn't have a d!ck in his mouth and ask him.

Answer 9

ask him about his{ girl friend } or if he likes someone ans u will know from his answer.

Answer 10

If he tells you. Otherwise, you can't. Sorry.

Answer 11

Ask him.