ok lets answer this from another point of view
i meet someone and in 4 months i left my house wife and kids because i didn't love my wife and want it to be with this girl in the proces i hurt my wife very bad is been a year i still love my new girlfriend but now i understand that i am not going to be happy with her and that i made a BIGGGG mistake and i want to go back with my wife and i know she will take me back but what i want to do is help her be there for her like a promise 10 years ago
and try to love her and i will never do something like that again in mi life or ill cut my dick off my self
we all make mistakes maybe i don't desserve a second chance but some people do